It’s not fair!

Why the fairness bandwagon is bad for women…

jane fae
8 min readMar 31, 2024
Adapted from Liberty Leading the People by Eugène Delacroix (1830): Public domain

Fairness is one of those things, like motherhood and apple pie, that no-one can be against. Right! Right? Unless, of course you are allergic to apples. But that’s a whole different tarte tatin.

Like all clichés, there is a grain of truth here. Also, much flummery. Snake oil, too. Because ‘fairness’ is at best a difficult concept. At worst, a smokescreen, which ‘commonsense’ legislators use to poke holes in our most basic of values.

Including equality for women.

Now read on…

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The right-wing press, the outrage press, love a good unfairness story. Mumsnet, too. If your neighbour has parked a bumper two inches over your drive, it is unfair! Waaaah! Watch the ickles throw their toys out of the pram. Watch, too, as commenters propose, in a spirit of Christian reconciliation, the laying of tacks on your drive. That’ll make them repent!

OK. It might also make them crash, killing and injuring sundry bystanders. But that’s OK. Because taking a stand against unfairness and cheeky fuckery trumps all.

Just nobody, please, point out the irony of assorted opinion-havers — whose usual response to any suggestion of intervening to fix social…

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jane fae

Feminist, writer, campaigner on political and sexual liberty who also knows a bit about IT, the law and policing. Not entirely serious…